You are absolutely correct JT - "IF" I were doing heavy grinding in the 1500 to 2,000 SFPM range I'd want a 1750 rpm motor for sure. For me, down at the slower belt speeds I'm using fairly light pressure. When I want to use heavy pressure I'm wanting to remove LOTS of material and have the speed cranked up to 3,000 to 4,000 SFPM speeds. That's where I need my max torque. Either a 1750 or 3500 rpm motor is going to give pretty much the same torque at max speed. That's why I've said "for me", I'll never know the difference between the two motors, except when moving and purchasing.
I do have a 1750 rpm motor on a disk grinder, which never gets run past 1750 rpm anyway.