Wow. Where to begin with all the armchair quarterbacks ... 
I have run into too many people who can't handle the recoil of a 357 Magnum and those 125's are pretty snappy too and worse than the 158's. A great deal of those users could handle a 44 Special and wouldn't develop flinch and other bad habits.
A solid hit with a 380ACP (or Kurz) is better than a miss with a 357 Magnum, 44 Magnum, 480 Ruger, ..... A solid hit with a modern 44 Special is nothing to dismiss for self defense in an urban environment. If one additional round makes the difference, in most urban self defense scenarios your tactics and training are lacking IMHO.
Where I live, a rifle first so I'm more into enough pistol with the least amount of additional weight within reason.

I have run into too many people who can't handle the recoil of a 357 Magnum and those 125's are pretty snappy too and worse than the 158's. A great deal of those users could handle a 44 Special and wouldn't develop flinch and other bad habits.
A solid hit with a 380ACP (or Kurz) is better than a miss with a 357 Magnum, 44 Magnum, 480 Ruger, ..... A solid hit with a modern 44 Special is nothing to dismiss for self defense in an urban environment. If one additional round makes the difference, in most urban self defense scenarios your tactics and training are lacking IMHO.
Where I live, a rifle first so I'm more into enough pistol with the least amount of additional weight within reason.