Thank you to all the ladies (gents too) who replied. Your advice is very helpfull. If any other ladies want to chime in, it's not to late, I'm checking regularly for new posts. I think I do have to defend myself here though. Here's what happened: One night my wife picked up my latest copy of "Blade" magazine and saw a nice custom folder done in Damascus and abolone. She asked me what was on the steel and I told her about damascus. She commented on how "pretty" it was and said that she would like to have a kn ife like that. At the time she seemed very excited about it, in fact, I havn't seen her get that excited about anything in awhile. So, to make a long story short, I bought her a Case slimlock in mother of pearl and damascus. I couldn't find one in abolone at that time. She was in Chicago on our anniversary, so my daughter and I flew out there to be with her and thats when I gave her the knife, right there in the middle of O'Hare. Anyway, she was very thankfull and gracious, and refused to let me return it to buy her jewelry. My heart was in the right place, but she still won't carry it, she says it's to "fancy".