Sams, after learning what happened I'm sure your wife is glad to be married to the man she calls husband, a man who is in control of himself and, therefore, the situation and that regardless of provocation he will choose to come home to her safe and sound rather than choose to escalate a bad situation. I know the emotional cost of that encounter can eat at you for quite some while, however, it showed you have the maturity and self control to make a wise decision. Wisdom is what allowed you to return home to your wife safe, sound, and without the burden of legal consequences for violence where it was not absolutely necessary to preserve life and limb. Unfortunately, wisdom is often accompanied with a heavy dose of humiliation, a price that is all to often the cost for living in a civilized society where the rule of law is the standard under which we must conduct ourselves in order to insure our personal freedoms. I know I'm not telling you anything you do not already well know. This post is to let you know that I admire and commend your actions in this matter where things could very easily have gone to hell in a handbasket for you and your family had you not made the decision you did. I am proud to be in the company of men and women like yourself who gather on this forum.