I have never really had a craving for booze. I make beer and drink beer at parties but I have been known to have good beer people left from parties in my fridge for six months or more. Cocaine, hard drugs never really cared for them. Probably the 2 things I have done more compulsively than any have been pot and coffee. However as my life has got busier I don't have the time to be stoned like I used to when I didn't have a farm. I still like it though:thumbup: Also because I do have the farm and work I have a tendency to overdo the coffee, but since I hate to let anything have a hold over me once a year, usually after kidding season is over I wean myself totally off caffiene, then drink a little green tea till kidding season hits again and I hit the coffee hard cause I'm chronically sleep deprived then.
That is great about your pal. I know one guy now who is an alcoholic and is a totally sweet guy, but he is so dependant that he has a seizure if he doesn't have just the right amount to keep his "jones" going.
I have another friend who I really worry about. He's a chronic pot smoker which doesn't really hurt him too much other than financially, but he also smokes 3 plus packs of cigarettes a day and has since he was about 15. He told me at one point he and his wife were smoking $400 bucks worth of cigarettes a month and 100 bucks worth of weed. That's a house payment! I am really worried about my friend cause I'm afraid he'll get lung cancer. He really lives a poor life financially even though he has a decent job cause he still smokes like 100 bucks of cigs. He also drinks 2 beers a night. One day we added up all his vices and he was spending $160 a month for his various stuff.