Wow. I have never seen anything like the service I saw this afternoon. Kathy, her mom and I arrived shortly after 3:00 when the viewing began, and there was already a line of people stretching out to the entrance through two chapels at the funeral home. The line never diminished until after the service closed at 5:00. Literally hundreds of people came to pay their respects to this undeniably well-loved family. Even though I am still a bit of an "outsider" having only lived here for less than five years, I still saw people I knew from other situations whom I had no idea were in any way connected to this family. It was heartening and heartbreaking at the same time. I know that Angie (the widow) has not really slept much the past couple of days, and I know what sleep the children have had has been troubled at best. I am sure they will sleep tonight, if only from the sheer exhaustion of putting on a brave face to accept the condolances of a parade of people, each reminding Angie, Brian and Brittany of their departed Husband and Father. I know it's part of the process, but it seems almost cruel to expect so much from a greiving family - especially the kids. I'm not sure they could have handled one more hug, kiss or pat on the head. I only hope that such a tremendous show of support provides a degree of comfort, and a good return on the strength they had to invest just to receive it.
Thank you all again,
Bryan & Kat