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Did you know that being an altruist is not just morally right, but also healthy for your mentality? That is right, just like endorphins are released when you exercise, altruism releases chemicals in your brain that stimulate whatever part of your brain that makes you happy. The end result is a pervasive good feeling. Even if you claim to be perpetually depressed, like me, I bet you anything that at least a flicker of a smile will cross your face if you give a starving person food, or a thirsty person water, or a person in need of a pen a writing utensil, and they all say thanks. Unless you are the Terminator, that will make you feel good. I am not saying this feeling will last forever, that is a common misconception about happiness. It does NOT last. But it is memorable, and really, what is life other than perceived memory? So, by all means, if you want to be :grumpy:, if you are a suffering soul inside, and take all life's challenges with a grimaced 'okay', then resist all temptation, do not give a homeless girl a doll when you pass her by, do not even look at her, and mope when you feel even worse for not doing so. But if you are like most people, and most intelligent primates, for that matter, and you see that same little forlorn looking girl, give her a dollar or two, and her resounding smile might just make your day.
For clarification, I am not a therapist, though I realize I sort of sound like one, and that they have that irritating quality of being right when you are wrong almost ALL THE TIME. Nor am I saying that my statement is foolproof. If you have an idea you think is right and mine is wrong by your reckoning, by all means, let the debate begin.
Anyway, I just thought I would share this little tidbit with the good people of the Cantina. Rock on everyone, and peace out.
For clarification, I am not a therapist, though I realize I sort of sound like one, and that they have that irritating quality of being right when you are wrong almost ALL THE TIME. Nor am I saying that my statement is foolproof. If you have an idea you think is right and mine is wrong by your reckoning, by all means, let the debate begin.
Anyway, I just thought I would share this little tidbit with the good people of the Cantina. Rock on everyone, and peace out.