To OP,
I'm also a non paying member, I think it's not an insult if that fact is true. I respect those who play by the rule, paying their dues to advertise their products here. You may need to hang in a bit & learn more about the rules etc. If you understand how the rule plays here, no neeed to ask why support to dealers or makers on the forum is a good thing.
Martin / HeavyHanded has contributed a lot and not only his washboard very good learning tool, his videos & posts have been very informative about what is the goal & how to reach it. As a non paying member, at the least we can share info, help with pointers, and keep it cool. What's more we can ask for free? Good advices & resources!
Jason has also pointed out your tendency to ignore advice given, he's not alone. Many of good folks tried to be helpful to you, and as Red stated, some of the comment came from long standing members who usually not confrontative. I also noticed that you have tendency to ignore advice given, if it's not aligned with your ideas or interests. That's fine, a lot of people are like that. However, allow me to use a bit of paraphrase: in my country there's saying something like this 'a dog who bites the hands that feed him'. I don't think you want to leave that impression. Ignoring advice is ok, but snapping to people trying to help is not going to encourage more help to come your way.
Unfortunately internet & forum lacks intonation, so a friendly reminder might be seen as rebuke or insult.
Depends on talent, hours put in, etc., two months isn't unrealistic. There's also period of stagnation and progress as with any learning process.
Good luck in your sharpening journey!
Edit to add: There's also ignore option so you can opt to not see posts by people that you feel not contributing towards you without needing to fight them. And, non paying member cannot PM. One can leave Visitor Message though.