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I agree Burt...very well put!
On Steven's side... yes, he is about as abrasive as sticking your hand on the ground while you're driving down the Interstate.
BUT, the defining difference among him and tire kickers is that he will pony up and buy a knife if you've made something that works for him.
I think we're all given sensors that filter what we think about and what we actually say out loud. Tatoo ink has melted down Steven's filter and he quite simply speaks his mind
But in an overly pc world, I think there's something to appreciate about this, just like Bailey mentioned.
The other thing you must keep in mind here. We groom ourselves to stand politely behind the table and smile. Standing there while Steven gives you the howcome and what-for can make it hard to stand up straight and smile... but that is not what Steven wants. If he says something you disagree with, he wants you to say so, not just smile sheepishly and hold back.
If you keep that in mind, you will see that Steven is very genuine and very passionate about his collecting. You don't have to agree with him, but when you don't, TELL him so. You and he will get along MUCH better if you tell him to stick it in his ear, then if you tell someone else you wish he would.
Anyway, just some unneeded thoughts here.
-Nick-
On Steven's side... yes, he is about as abrasive as sticking your hand on the ground while you're driving down the Interstate.

I think we're all given sensors that filter what we think about and what we actually say out loud. Tatoo ink has melted down Steven's filter and he quite simply speaks his mind

The other thing you must keep in mind here. We groom ourselves to stand politely behind the table and smile. Standing there while Steven gives you the howcome and what-for can make it hard to stand up straight and smile... but that is not what Steven wants. If he says something you disagree with, he wants you to say so, not just smile sheepishly and hold back.
If you keep that in mind, you will see that Steven is very genuine and very passionate about his collecting. You don't have to agree with him, but when you don't, TELL him so. You and he will get along MUCH better if you tell him to stick it in his ear, then if you tell someone else you wish he would.
Anyway, just some unneeded thoughts here.
-Nick-