Advice on a Woman

Play it a day at a time. There is no hurry. Things change. Look to yourself more and her less. It will all work out according to the karma that is set forth and remember, you cannot change karma, only make the best of it.
 
Well you may have too think about it for a while but this is what I tell people who come here looking for help. It does work for everything, every situation as long as you apply it truthfully.
And the first thing too remember is too never, ever, lie to yourself because if you do then nothing will work for you, ever.

"What are you willing to give up too get what you want?"

Yvsa Gigagei.

It is a helluva lot harder question to answer than one may think sometimes.
And sometimes the answer comes close to giving up your soul. You had damned sure better think long and hard before you do that.
 
"At one time I thought I'd find a girl who would actually like me. Things went downhill from there and then I got a dog." - Rizzuh
 
She won't commit to a long distance relationship, but is willing to fork over some big bucks to come home for a month. That's worth keeping in perspective.

But when it comes to figuring out what a woman wants or is thinking.....don't even go there. It's a lesson in futility for the most part.(For pete's sake, most of the time WE don't know what we want or need :rolleyes: ) Listen to your gut feeling. Not your heart, it's deceitful above all things and not the third leg, it's opinionated, but totally unreliable. Listen to that still small voice that you will know when you hear it. You may not like what it says, but it's usually very accurate. My best wishes for a month of communication and companionship.
 
Now we're turning into "Dear Khuknut in Love"it seems. OK with me, I'm a veteran too.
Don't forget about her family, as you proceed. You think you are hooking up with a girl, but you are really getting yourself involved with her whole damn family. Mom and dad are obvious, but siblings, cousins, uncles, aunts and grandparents to name just a few are also part of the bargain. :eek:
Please be careful, and don't let your little head, overwhelm your big head :D
Hope I'm not speaking out of turn. :D
 
Let her take the lead. Relax, have fun BUT don't push. Don't buy expensive gifts and don't push yourself on her. Just be who you are and if she decides she misses you she will come around. If she finds someone else that floats her boat, you had fun.
 
I agree with most of the above.

However might I add that cleaning up your domicile is always a good idea when dealing with women.

I'd also clean the bathroom.
 
better to love for a blissful month and face the pain of loss to never have loved for that month.

Memories man... memories. In the winter seasons of your life it'll be a fond experience and a story to reminicse over. SO TAKE PICTURES DAMMIT.

Life. It's short, it's fragile... so go out there and give it hell!!

Ayo Gorkhali!
 
Thank you, Brothers, for all of it.

And, yes, I cleaned the bathroom, along with the rest of the house.

We'll see where it goes from here. Not setting expectations too high, or even at all if I can help it. Lot of good advice in here.

Ayo Gorkhali ;)
 
Dave Hahn said:
SO TAKE PICTURES DAMMIT.
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I don't know if I'd go that far, or bum the video camera.

Otherwise there are times for all things. If I may, one of the top three quoted sections of the bible. Perhaps another thread one day.

Ecclesiastes 3

1 For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: 2 a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; 3 a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4 a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 5 a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 6 a time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; 7 a time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 8 a time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace
 
FallingKnife said:
I think there's a lot of good advice here. The only thing I can add is: Do not admit that you got personal advice from a bunch of anonymous internet knife nuts. :D I don't think she'll understand.
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I'll second that, by golly!
 
Bam,
Rule #1,Women base ALL thinking on EMOTION. Rule #2 Treat them the way they treat you & it becomes real interesting.
After stating the above,you asked for advice,really doesn't matter cause YOU are going to do what you want too then ask WHY DID I DO THAT!! You see,she has the upper hand,she knows how much you care,you aren't even a challenge,SHE'S got you "WHENEVER" she wants!Sounds like a game doesn't it!! Well it is ALL a game. Don't believe me?? Ask one of your female friends about a NICE guy who was NUTS about her ,ask why she didn't go with him. Bet she says,NO CHALLANGE! She wanted some guy she couldn't control & she had to work to get! Well it's up to you!
THE DUCK! :cool:
 
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