After 31 years, I could use some help.

[glockman99]

ROTFLMFAO!
You'd have to sell her organs to pay off the debt.

Now THAT'S a GOOD plan...I didn't think about that...And for awile, you wouldn't even have to kill her to remove and sell a couple of her organs to help pay off HER debts..

 

[fulloflead]

Now THAT'S a GOOD plan...I didn't think about that...And for awile, you wouldn't even have to kill her to remove and sell a couple of her organs to help pay off HER debts..

Sell her legs first - keeps her from running away.:thumbup:

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[NorthStarXO]

Ewww - now you've gone too far.

How does she feel about this marriage? What is she buying or doing with those credit cards? I'd make her get a job and I'm a woman. She doesn't deserve how nice you've been (or a doormat that you've been) and you don't deserve to have to worry about this when you've worked so hard all your life to get to this point just to get screwed.

If there's nothing left between you then call it a wash. Get custody of the little one. You'll have to work a little longer unless you're gonna get a really good pension.

I agree with Gollnick, sell the house, don't remortgage it. Put her out on her ass. Nowadays the courts have more mercy towards the men.

I'm in the middle of a particularly nasty divorce right now but he's an alcoholic and an ass. Plus I left him all the stuff and just took what was personally mine. I even left him the car even though he had a truck since he had paid for most of it and we didn't have any joint credit cards or money.

 

[AmadeusM]

I hope some of the unmarried (notice I didn't say "single") dudes out there can learn from this man's story.

 

[Larry B.]

There's no such thing as debtors jail. As long as the credit cards were not obtained by fraudulent information don't pay them. You can make a deal with them down the road if you want. Get yourself a lawyer, he will show you a way out.

 

[tyr_shadowblade]

$60,000.00 in credit card debt is amazingly selfish, I don't care if she is filling a void.

More like $165,000 in credit card debt, if you factor in the past 3 times this happened.

Wow . . . I wish that I could afford to forgive $105,000 in past debt racked up by a significant other. You, sir, have the tolerance of a Saint . . . but even Saints get pissed off occasionally with good reason.

As for "The Void" . . . it is infinite.

Oh, and I apologize for the "inappropriate language" . . . even though I refrained from cussin'. . . dismemberment & organ harvesting is good, but honey for one's honey is bad. I am a bad man.

 

[Walking Man]

First thing though, if you want to stay married.
If she's won't leave the church, leave her.
She has to realize that she married to you not them.
THEN go and find a church that you can both accept AND attend. Not only will you both be happier because you've gone through the searching process together, you'll have something to talk about and have more in common than you seem to these days.
BTW..... IF SHE'S NEVER HAD A JOB, SHE NEEDS ONE! Boredom facilitates spending.