I am a big boy and can handle myself. The people I worry about are my family. I would hate to have something happen to one of them because of something stupid I said or because I got into an arguement with someone online. I have no problem having my email address or the region I'm from in my profile. I can change my email address at any time if it starts to become a problem. I do not, however, have my name in the phone book. I think it is robbery that I have to pay a monthly fee to keep it out, but it is money well spent. If I know your full name, and you are listed in a public phone book, I can get a map to your doorstep in 5 minutes. It is very easy to do online. Go to Yahoo if you don't believe me. I printed out maps to their front door for my family and friends. It even had motels to stay at and restaurants on it. Almost everyone of them took their name out of the phone book. That is some pretty scary stuff! Besides that reason, there is another reason not to ever give out your phone number. I have never gotten a telemarketing call. Ever.
I don't put my phone number on ANYTHING. Not on government documents, not on surveys, not on catalog orders, not anywhere. If someone needs to contact me, they can contact me through the mail, when I can deal with it at my leisure. The people who are important to me have my number and that's about it. Do you know that just about every state's automobile licensing agency sells your personal info to marketers? In Minnesota you have to go down and fill out a form to get them to stop. Is that nuts or what? One other place you shouldn't put any extra info on is your checks. I have mine and my wife's name and our address on it and that's it.
There is two reason's for this. The first one is that if your check book is ever stolen, the thief is much more apt to be asked for ID.
It is more of a hassle to alway's be asked for ID, but it something that is worth it to protect yourself. The other reason is because marketers, especially telemarketers, take your personal info off the top of your check and use it. A friend of mine works for a company that does it and he said that it is widely done. Most local places like gas stations and grocery stores want a phone number and driver license number so I just write it on the comment line. Since I am starting to ramble and get way off topic anyway, I will tell you one other trick. When you get unwanted telemarketing calls, don't hang up on them or tell them to take you off of their call list. When you hang up on them, most companies have automatic dialers that will call you back 3 hours to one month later. When you tell them to remove you from their call list, they take you off of their list, but they still sell your info to other companies. What's the answer? Either tell them that the person just died, or do what I do and tell them that they have the wrong number. Tell them that you just got this number and you are getting all kinds of calls for "that" person. Also, make sure you do it politely. If you are rude, they will sometimes leave you on the list just to piss you off. If you use either of these two methods, they will put you on their bad number list and not sell your info.
To reiterate, I would have no problem giving info to someone I "know" from the boards. I don't want it out there for people I don't know. We've all seen people come in here for a couple weeks and raise hell and then either get banned or they just plain vanish. All too often these days, information that we think is for our local community, is being pirated to the global community.
Take care, (AND your super secret black helicopter detector)
Jim