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Some good answers and suggestions here Quiet Bear. But I have to ask...
what about Mrs. Sturtavant who lives a few doors down? She is eighty and has trouble maintaining her body heat when all is going well. Her family all lives out of state. Are you prepared to take her in too and see to her needs?
And Polly and her three kids who live at the end of the block. They've struggled since Tom shipped out with his squad and there is no way she is prepared. Are you willing and able to care for her and hers too?
You see, THIS is where the rubber meets the road. Will you just draw the curtains and not answer the door or will you go knocking on doors checking on neighbors? Are you just preparing to warm and feed yourself, or are you preparing to be a light?
Codger
We dont have icestorms or cold those extremes
but when we have storms and power outages , my family has been looking out for the oldies on our street and the ocasional young single mum who move in the street for a while , clearing fallen trees , house repairs , making sure they got food and drink and bringing the ones who are having serious problems into our home for the duration .
BUT
we dont make a big fuss about it , we just do it quietly . We dont pretend we are any charity or agency that has back up , just a friendly helping hand if its needed .
it get bleeding annoying at times , our home is small and it happens that oldies want to be helpful but are slow on their feet and at times unsteady , it can get frustrating .
over the last couple years we have slowly bought for our pet oldies single burner gas camp stoves , and a couple packs of gas canisters to run them , and other gear to help them manage with no power , squeeze it torches , led lights , small car batteries , solar trickle charger and smallish inverter for running a nebuliser machine etc
saves us hassles for small outages , we have been slowly getting them kited out with bug out bags / emergency bags , the storms we have been having are heaps stronger than usual and Im seriously expecting houses here to loose roofs and other damage , if one of our oldies cops it , they can just grab their bag and go , at least they are less of a load on whoever they end up with , or hopefully able to take care of their own needs if they end up in a evac shelter .
In away , its making my life easy , I dont have the worry now about my friends that I used to have , kinda consience balm I guess , they feel more prepared and able to deal , thats a HUGE improvement on a oldie freaking out doing a helpless act .
Its had a bit of a domino effect too , the oldies I care for have their own kids grand kids and great grand kids , some of these are catching on to the more practical ideas as the back up gas stove , spare bottled water and stash of extra food .
its not huge things , its little things , maybe $50 a month kind of financial investment , over the last 7 years or so but in real terms , we are seeing pay offs that I never figured on seeing , in friends , the things the oldies teach me and the kids in my care that we wouldnt have learned about any other way .
thats my story anyway