Thank you very much, Brian, for your lengthy post. I appreciate it. (And thanks to everyone in this thread.)
As you guessed, I've been watching a lot of Jdavis882's old YouTube videos. (Also watched virtuovice with his water stone sharpening.) In one video, Jdavis882 goes from DMT C, to DMT F, to DMT Extra F, to (I think) the Spyderco Ultra Fine Ceramic, then to a strop with green compound. I started this thread just to see if I could get some confirmation on Jdavis882's method before spending all the money. Mind you, I don't mind spending money on tools that I'll use, but, being a beginner, I can't tell from here what I really need. I already have two double-sided strops, some Bark River compounds (green, black, white) and a ceramic sharpening rod. Also, bought some wet-dry sandpaper.
What you say about diamond stones (that they produce a more course finish) is interesting and makes sense. When I get further into this, am I going to find that I should have steered away from diamond stones and just started with water stones? Are diamond stones "too aggressive" in the long term?
I'm eager to learn and start sharpening, but I'd rather not learn "the hard way" and ruin my knives, so I'm taking it slow.
