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Man kills bear: He is a cruel jerk.
Bear kills man: Why didn't anyone shoot it?
You just can't win with a lot of people.
Many only know they are vaguely unhappy but are incapable of imagining that they would be just as unhappy, or even more so, if things had gone differently. And since they are unhappy someone must be to blame, and somehow it's never themselves.
Children do this all the time, I've frequently outlined every possible course of action in a given situation, had the child reject every one of them, and then get angry with me because I can't wave a magic wand and make them happy with some impossible option pulled in from the Twilight Zone. An obvious case of cruelty on my part.
Most people outgrow most of this eventually. Most being the key word.
Bear kills man: Why didn't anyone shoot it?
You just can't win with a lot of people.
Many only know they are vaguely unhappy but are incapable of imagining that they would be just as unhappy, or even more so, if things had gone differently. And since they are unhappy someone must be to blame, and somehow it's never themselves.
Children do this all the time, I've frequently outlined every possible course of action in a given situation, had the child reject every one of them, and then get angry with me because I can't wave a magic wand and make them happy with some impossible option pulled in from the Twilight Zone. An obvious case of cruelty on my part.

Most people outgrow most of this eventually. Most being the key word.