Panella,
If comfort is the only thing keeping you from getting her a La Griffe, then buy some paracord and pretty up the handle. The most expensive part of a self-defense blade isn't in the box. It's the Judicious Use of Lethal Force courses before it's used and the costs associated with violence after it's used (emotional, physical, legal, financial).
Brownie0486,
Wouldn't a steel that bends be less likely to snap? Of the stainless steels, I'd see AUS6M, 420HC, and 425M as better able to take careless damage without snapping when compared to 154CM, AUS8A, and D2. Of course, with a blade as small as a LaGriffe or Bear Claw, that may be a moot point because if the point goes rapidly into a hard surface, the fingers are showing up in an eighth of a beat afterwards.