Im not a Beckerhead, but I do like you guys, and Mr.Becker. So, I will chime in even though it will make me seem rough as a dry corncob. Ive been through a lot for my age..been on the streets, got the living snot beaten out of me, mauled by dogs, went through debilitating injuries..and worse still. Being on the streets can be either extremely bad or not AS bad, there is no GOOD to it. Some of you are familiar with my social experiments (i.e. others perceptions and treatment of you based on clothing and appearance), these are conducted for multiple reasons.
Chapter One:
If you are dirty, smelly, carry yourself rudely or nervously..people will notice in a negative perception. We are all quilty of it..we all assess based on these things. If you seem sneaky, it will be noticed. If you are dirty, carry a noticeable odor..will be noticed. If you are aggressive, pushy, rude..will be noticed. All of these things cause a negative perception and reaction. People also remember. I rarely ever forget a face, if that person drew a negative perception. These perceptions set off instincts, a "I bet that fellow is up to no good, or that person might be desperate." These instincts, these assumptions, are often automatic.
The perceptions of others can cause a great deal of trouble. Ive found that there is a low, medium, and high to this. If you have read my experiments, then you already know this. If you are dressed in ratty torn up clothes, you will draw a negative perception. If you are clean, well-groomed, and well-dressed..people will react much, much more positively..but then you also draw the attention of those whom would regard you as a mark. Now, if you go between...clean clothes, groomed, no smell...youre just another face in the herd. Either extreme..low or high, both draw unwanted attention.
A small bar of soap and a gas-station restroom sink..you can reasonably wash clothing. If you have a spare set..go for it. Its not hard to carry a comb, and if you have a multitool with scissors..trim that beard and hair! I cut my own and do it very well. Deodorant can be had for a buck, as can a tooth brush and paste. Your image can both get you into and out of trouble.
Hygiene makes visiting places, public places simpler and draws less attention. The less attention, especially for women in this situation, is extremely important. If you look as if youre homeless, you will draw the attention of police, security, etc much more than usual. It makes visiting the local library, for example, easier and with little or no hullabaloo. In this situation, you want to be as overlooked as possible! Others perception of you can very much, in such a situation, effect how it goes...can make it a little more tolerable, or a whole lot worse.
For women, to remain unnoticed, is far far more important. There are plenty of predators out there, and a person with no place to go, likely without the means to call out for help..in all likelyhood is seen as a mark. For a woman, to dress plainly, preferably avoiding form fitting clothing, is a wise choice. Homelessness is far more dangerous for women. Although, homeless women generally get more help than men, they are also more at risk of being robbed (if they look to have anything), harrased, etc.