Been a little out of sorts for a couple months, sorry

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Hi Everybody,

Sorry about the delays and not really being on top of things.

Those that know me know most thing private I keep private.

But the Busse family is family.

Thought you all may want to know.



Jan 16 in the evening my Polly Anna passed in my arms on the way to the vet hospital.

it seems she was egg bound, it can happen in parrots and is quite bad.
she has had a couple clutches of eggs over the years but I do all i can to help prevent it from happening.


Parrots do not really let you know anything is wrong until it is almost too late.

In the morning she seemed normal. later that evening when I went to take her to her sleeping cage she stiffened and fell in my arms.
as my wife drove us to the hospital in the neighboring town she just stopped breathing.
I knew she was gone.

she has pretty literally been on my shoulder for over 20 years.

so totally ingrained in our lives it is hard to imagine things with here gone.

she was always there with lots of whistles, beeps and words
she would imitate every electronic sound that came in the house.
we have not had a land line for 12 years and yet people would here the phone ringing.
never had a twitter account but the tweet whistle would happen often.
she would whistle opera songs like the magic flute
said lots of words at the exact right times.
said bye bird to my wife when she went to work and hi bird when she came home.
barked at the dogs over the years.
she would laugh
she would do raspberries (farty sounds)
whistle for the dog and laugh when he came.

It is just so quite now.

the following weeks and even months have been hard, very hard.

I grew up on a farm and death happened, things pass and you move on.

This has effected me a lot more than I could have imagined.

with my Family and friends and the lord it has been getting better.

she will always be with us

Thanks for listening

Love and miss you Polly Anna

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Sincere condolence on your loss David! Animals can be like our children, just of a different sort. The pain of losing them is every bit as real and difficult.

Praying you and your family can heal and smile again from all the good memories you made together.

I don't have any hard evidence to say so, but I do wonder if God has these same animals safe with him in the next life just as he does all those who know him and have passed on before us. They may only be gone for a time, not forever.

Hugs to you my friend!
 
Aw man, that’s horrible. So sorry to hear you lost your little sweetie. I know she was a great little friend and terribly missed.🙏
 
If you let them in, pets become close as family. And when they pass, it’s just as painful. I feel your pain and am so sorry for your loss, brother. Here’s to better days.
 
Tragic. They're one of the rare pets with the potential for a long lifespan, and with their intelligence and personality, the bond with them is so strong. So sorry for your loss of that beautiful smart friend.
 
David my condolences. You have lost a close family member in horrible circumstances. It's devastating.

Birds, particularly Parrots, are so unique because of the intelligence and long life. She must have had such an awesome life with you and you were all so blessed to have each other.

There are no words to make you feel better but when you are ready we are here waiting for you.
 
Very sorry David.

My condolences to you.

My dog Bella was killed on Friday night. She was 5. Somehow my daughter left her out while I was away. She never goes down to the gravel road... But she did and a stranger to the neighborhood was going to fast.

She died before I got home.
 
David,
I'm so sorry. I've been through that twice, both in my arms. :(
Once at 28 1/2 years and again at 26 1/2. Tomorrow will be two years since Harley passed.
I miss them both every day. About a year after my first one (Lucy the 28 1/2 yo) passed we had the opportunity to adopt a 14 yo Greenwing. At first she was stand offish.
After about 5 weeks she stepped up and after that it was nothing but love.
I would encourage you to adopt a new friend and give them love and a forever home.
There are many parrots that are out there looking for a home and much needed love.
I had no idea how many until I moved to Phoenix and saw about 30 parrots a month just being thrown away. It broke my heart.
You will never forget Polly Anna, but I know you and Nancy have big hearts and there is a parrot out there looking for a great couple like you.
Here's a big hug Buddy...Best of Luck to you guys.

BTW.. Cassi will be 39 on July 24th
 
Condolences. I still think see my Daisy cat sometimes and it’s been 5 years. The void is real. You gave her a good life and she knew it. Remember that.
 
"The void is real."
That is definitely true for those of us who have bonded with our smaller companions.
The bigger the bond...the bigger the void.

I understand exactly where you're coming from, and I'm very sorry for your loss, Dave.
 
Memento Mori, even our pets. So sorry your family lost such a smart girl. She must have had such a wonderful life and has you to thank for that.
 
I'm very sorry you lost your companion, they are sometimes harder to lose than people. I lost my 16 year old cat a couple years back, he helped me through some tough times. I never thought I would be ready for another because he meant so much and I hurt so much. I ended up getting another after about a year, it was a snap decision made in the moment but also I was tired of the quiet mischief free house.
 
I really feel your pain in your post. I'm really sorry. I hope you can manage to keep fond memories of your close friend. Keep your head up David.
 
David,

Very sorry to hear of your loss, my Condolences to you and the family.

It's been a few years since my buddy Conrad passed after 35 years of playing hide and seek. He was a Macaw and he was such a character more family than pet. I understand what you're going through, and am very sorry for your loss.
 
Most birds look shifty, that one does not.

It's a weird life out here and you have to get love where you can. Looks like a sweet ass bird, she was lucky to have an owner like you. RIP Polly.
 
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