Wow, I really didn't et to find a thread about Scouting here... sure brings back a lot of memories.
I was involved with my Scout troop, Stamford 03, for 6 years before they closed it down. In Singapore, almost all Scout troops are affiliated to a school. Just so happened that the school I went to had 2 Scout troops... after some 20-odd years, they shut my troop down... damn politics.
Secondary school lasts 4 years (13 - 16) and that was when I got into Scouting. In Singapore, by 18 there's mandatory National Service... we go into the military for 2 plus years.
Most of my Scouters were either Commandos or Guardsmen (elite infantary) and when they came back to lead us, they passed on a lot of what they had learnt... and the cycle went on. That was the sort of tough group we had. But man we loved it!!
By 15 we had done the bug eating, jungle squatting routine... we had done so many things that on hindsight I'm surprised we weren't killed in the process. I have an American friend who was an Eagle Scout before and when we trade stories he shakes his head in disbelief. We pushed ourselves hard but we had a lot of fun...
But now, as I look at my 5mth old son, I wonder if I want him to become a scout. My father was a Scout, I'm a Scout... but I wonder if I want my son to carry on this tradition. It's not that I think the Scouts are too tough... on the contrary...

The Singapore Scout movement today seems to have degenerated into a sad shadow of what it used to be. When I was a new scout, the initiation skill were known as Tenderfoot Tests... and covered knife knowledge, as well as hand and felling axes. It was a great confidence builder for a 13yr old to know that he could wield a tool as basic as a felling axe and chop a tree in half (no trees were harm in these sessions, we always hauled logs in from what the parks department didn't want). Nowadays, I understand that knives and axes are considered too dangerous for them to learn.
What is included, are new merit badges like "Computer Skills"... WAITAMINUTE!! If you wanna learn computer skills, go join the computer club!! (no insult intended to anyone... coz, THAT'S exactly what I did... I was in both clubs)
I mean, the point of becoming a Scout is to go out and be a part of Nature... learn outdoorsy stuff... get dirty, fall down, come home muddy... play with ropes, knives, axes... FIRE!!
Along with some other change over the years, I personally feel that the scout association here has turned... soft. Great, just what the world needs... another "safe" extra-curricular activity.
I'll teach my son as much as I can... and I'll expose him to the great outdoors... but there's something about messing around with a whole bunch of kids your own age and just... be boys.
FLASHBACK
One of the things our scouters used to do to us was to make us do so many things (PT) included that we'd be exhausted by the time they stopped... sometimes well past midnight... AND THEN, we'd be given a pep talk.
Usually it was about co-operation, teamwork, sacrifice, how we actually had great potential, etc... the standard stuff...
(It was later on when we talked about what happened that we realised it was basic interrogation procedure to exhaust the subject to make him more receptive to whatever questioning or brainwashing... hehehe)
ANYWAY, I still remember one thing that was said to us that we had scoffed at as emotional mumbo-jumbo... The scouter said to us that our best friends would be made through scouting and from our peers.
Well, 15years on... and 6 of us still stay in touch; 4 of us meet up almost every weekend for dinner. That's how many of us were left after 6 years in the scouts. We started at 13 with a group of about 50... by the time we were 16 there were only 12 left. The rest couldn't cut it. *sigh*
I miss being a Scout, when Scouting meant what it used to. Old BP would cry if he saw Scouts the way they are today, coddled and pampered.