Can you guys help me?

aceofblades

aceofblades

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My girlfriend who I loved more than anything in the world recently broke up with me. I dont want to go into details about why. But I just cant get over her will you guys help?
 
Keep yourself busy. Don't leave yourself any room to think about anything but what you're doing. Get good and tired so you fall asleep fast. Good luck.
 
This is going to sound really crass but the best way to get over her is to find someone else. If you sit and mope you will never get over her. Buy a new knife, hit some night clubs, chase a pretty waitress or take a trip but Don't sit at home feeling sorry for yourself.
 
kamkazmoto said:
Buy a new knife, hit some night clubs, chase a pretty waitress or take a trip but Don't sit at home feeling sorry for yourself.
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That sounds exciting.

Buy a knife, take it to a club, chase a waitress with it, and then take a trip out of town or you'll be feeling sorry for yourself in your new home at the county jail! :D

aceofblades, he's right, get out, have fun, find a few friends to hang out with, don't let it worry you.

There's an old saying, "Love don't last, cooking does." Until you're really ready to settle down and get married, no girlfriend really matters enough to brood over.

Of course, if you do want her back, just let her see you with another girl. She'll rush right over and sink talons into you. :p
 
aceofblades,
Do you really miss her or do you infact miss the girl you wish and have made up in your mind that she could be? Do you miss the reality or the fantasy?

While you're busy right now probably missing the fantasy of what you wish she was, you could be missing out on someone very real, maybe the girl you're meant to be with.

If she broke up with you she's obviously not the one you're meant to be with.
That's the one thing that you need to fully understand before you'll be able to move on.
It's not you, it's her. She did you a favor by not wasting any more of your time. Now you can go out and find the right girl. She's taken up enough of your valuable time and emotional strength when you could have spent it on the right girl.

"Not getting over her" is just taking up more of your time and emotional strength, time and emotions you've already wasted on her. Don't waste anymore!!! YOu'd be doing yourself a diservice! And there's no need for it.

Take it easy and good luck. As others have said, get out there and move on and enjoy the fact you can now look for your real honey.
 
aceofblades said:
My girlfriend who I loved more than anything in the world recently broke up with me. I dont want to go into details about why. But I just cant get over her will you guys help?
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Ace: Been there a couple of times. Thought my world was over. Now every time I think of my wife of nearly 36 years I realize what disasters those others would have been.
 
That's life. Be a man and go find another girlfriend instead of whining about it like a little kid on a knife forum.
 
take a jungle survival course.



seriously, just do stuff to get your mind off her, especially stuff that requires 100% of your attention....
 
What everyone else said/wrote and when you get to mooning around over her, remind yourself of all the things she did/said that bugged you. Make a list...
all da best,
rats...
 
Please repost this in Whine and Cheese or the Cove. You will receive better answers there.
 
Drink heavily.

Write a country music song.

Cry in your beer.

Hug your dog.
 
Ace:

Same boat as you are right now, going on 4 months now. We were on for five blissful years and almost got married. A girl that was both pretty on the inside as well as the outside.

Now I know what it feels like with the old saying we have here: "like a limb/arm that's missing" when you lose someone who means the world.

What to do to get by?

- Get yourself in shape. In fact, in friggin' GOOD shape. Not to brag but a lot of the stuff in Crossfit, I can now actually breeze thru without having a stroke (also helps when we train soldiers on force-on-force). Heartache's a good motivator.

- Learn new things. Books, travel or exploring. It's a mighty BIG world out there.

- Teach/train. I teach self-defense and arnis and get the greatest kick when someone says he/she's learned a lot and enjoying the classes. Makes me strive hard to better the lessons and my abilities.

Go out of yourself and your pain. Wish you/us well!
 
REBOUND!

What Collucci said: Cowboy up and move on. Be single for a while. Enjoy some female company, but stay unattached until you have truly recovered.
 
Esav Benyamin said:
That sounds exciting.

Buy a knife, take it to a club, chase a waitress with it, and then take a trip out of town or you'll be feeling sorry for yourself in your new home at the county jail! :D
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I literally just sneezed water through my nose. :D :D :D

I'm still choking on what didn't go all over the computer screen.
 
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