Steve, I think personally you do a very good job as a moderator, and you've had a pretty rough time. I have very different opinions about the people ultimately running that site, however, and remember, I have ample personal experience.
The point is, however, that this site is this site, and that site is that site. I'm not here to pass judgement on anyone, it's not my job. But, if we have basically the same audience at both sites, and one has more problems than the other, then something is obviously being done wrong. It isn't nuclear science, rocket science, or even a Mr. Wizard experiment.
Steve, the simple fact is that this argument keeps coming up over and over and over again. I had to handle it when I ran KnifeForums.com, and now that I am no longer there, it still is occurring. This time, it managed to spill over onto BladeForums.com
In life you can blame others for your problems all you want, you can play "ostrich" if you choose. Pretend it never happened, until the next time it does. But give me a break already. "Poorly vieled insinuations"? What are we insinuating? If I want to insinuate something, I'll say it in the open so there is no mistaking what I mean, thank you.
Steve, I have yet to see one person call you out personally for being a bad guy. Many have taken issue with you for editing the post in question, and right or wrong you have to lump it. Take the experience, learn from it, and grow with it, and use it to become a better moderator.
I have, on the other hand, seen more than several instances of ill will and displeasure with the operation as a whole. Multiple people have stated that threads dissappear without notice when they disagree with the status quo, or question a maker in favor, or otherwise don't agree with the owners of that site. I've seen it happen, Mike's seen it happen, everyone else has seen it, so denying it's existance would be a pointless exercise. I also get emailed threads containing poorly veiled insinuations that are quiet nasty when you look at the.
That seems to be the core problem that the other site is facing, and since the issue comes up quite regularly, it'd be stupid to say that it's without merit. No one said it's Steve Harvey's fault, they are saying it's a bigger problem.
Again, however, it isn't my business anymore, I don't run the other site. I don't post there, not since I made my promise publically not too. See if you can find that thread, and read it for yourself.
But please don't come onto BladeForums.com saying that we are attacking you in particular, when the facts just don't back you up. You know that isn't true, and you also know we have no need to attack anyone.
I sincerely hope that you, and everyone else, can work the problems out and move on. But do me a favor and leave us out of it: we didn't cause what's going on, and we have nothing to do with it. If you want to discuss a problem and want help finding a solution, we'd be happy to help. But leave the blame for the problem somewhere else, just like it's not your fault, it isn't ours either.
Or, as the saying goes "You make your own bed, and you have to lie in it"
Now, I'm glad to hear that everything is getting patched up over there. Let's all move on and learn from it, instead of pretending that it never happened, ok?
Spark
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Kevin Jon Schlossberg
SysOp and Administrator for BladeForums.com
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