Although tungsten is hard it's not harder than most of the abrasives used in stones, it's actually much softer than even aluminum oxide. You should also be looking at the Knoop hardness scale, it's more accurate.
I think I've heard of that other hardness scale you're speaking of>>It has been a long time ago when I was going to college taking their Machine Tool Technology courses. It seems to me that there is also another hardness testing device too >> other than the "Rockwell" hardness tester that most of us are familiar with. It seems like I also heard reference to a "Vicker's" hardness test device and also a Brinell hardness tester as well. All I've ever used up to this point has been the Rockwell Hardness tester that we had at the lab where I was going to school at.
I'm going to dig up some of my old text books and see if I can find this other hardness scale you're speaking of. Yeah you're right because even some of the more common abrasives are usually way harder than any of the blade steels we work with. Thanks for calling that to my attention because I'm definitely going to check it out for sure.
i don't know if any of these other hardness testers are available at the school I used to attend>> they let me use their Rockwell tester whenever I want to. I've also got an older book on abrasives that I found at a thrift store about a year ago. But again I'm anxious to check out this other Hardness scale because most of the time the "Moh's Scale is the one you hear of 90% of the time.