Update...
Going to court tomorrow to plead to a misdemeanor in DV court. The offense is almost always prosecuted as a felony but since I only grabbed/restrained her (no bruises or injury), my case was not the norm. The court is requiring me to complete 52 weeks of anger management classes and after that is done, I can withdraw my plea and enter a not guilty.
Soon, we will be filing for divorce. I'm going to let her dad keep my round column milling machine and DRO since he is also a hobbyist and we are still on good terms. My new home/shop is probably going to be inhabitable by October. I'm buying a Grizzly 0731 knee mill and a Burr King 2x72 when I get moved in.
Still sober. Doing 2 meetings a day. Working steps with a sponsor.