Rat30,
There is never anything that can be said at this time to adequately state the obvious. This is one of the hardest times you will go through. I lost my mom at 12 and my dad at 18 and that has been 30-ish years ago. It is a dreadful time and all you can do is be there for the ones that are hurting the most. I want to say congrats on your accomplishment as that is certainly a milestone and as far as your daughter...well, I have one too an enuf said. They keep us going thru any and every...thing. God bless