It just so fucking beast mode. I am 5,7 180 so it would imprint the shit out of me. I like it cause you can have one in the chamber and either the hammer down or up with the safety on or off.
I like the gun but it is big.
Right out of the Academy, I worked for a private college police department. We had to provide our own weapons in one of the following calibers: .38 Spl., .357 Mag or 9mm. Mine, a S&W 586 [.357] with 6" Bbl, fully adjustable sights and target trigger - was carried in uniform, in plain clothes and also off duty. I'm 6'2" and at the time about 265 and carrying a gun that large [IWB] was all but impossible, even for me. I was relegated to a shoulder or cross-draw holster.
If I had the clout to have a say in the matter, I'd have Baretta make a model 92 in .45 ACP. But since none of us have that option....
...might I suggest a Springfield Armory XDM?
Springfield Armory XDM Compact 45 ACP 3.8" 16+1 Poly Grip Black
Description The XD has taken on another design in the XDM Compact. The "M" stands for a Model contour frame, Major grasp slide serrations, Match-grade barrel, and Minimal reset trigger. The XDM has a whole other level in precision. With an incredible attention to detail, no handgun company approaches specification and precision engineering like Springfield Armory.
Action Semi-Automatic
Caliber 45 Automatic Colt Pistol (ACP)
Barrel Length 3.8"
Capacity 16+1
Safety Grip
Grips Synthetic
Sights Dovetail front/3-Dot rear
Weight 27 oz
Here's a decent review [from 2010!!] of the full size---and even though nutnfancy is kind of full of himself, he's retired USAF [a Lt. Col] and his reviews are very well structured and informative....
[video=youtube;Rj0Kal84UNE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rj0Kal84UNE[/video]