Apologies for the lack of pictures, but here's what I do. Since we regularly cook fish, etc., while backpacking I use an MSR Dragonfly, it seems to work very well for that purpose with a 10-inch skillet.
For the freeze-dried portions of the meals, I usually carry a 375ml MSR pot. If I'm cooking more than one meal at a time I have an MSR pot that's about half a liter.
Use one of those Light My Fire spoon/fork deals, they work great.
Heavier and bulkier than some, but it's got all the horsepower I need.
I also use this setup while car camping on fishing trips, so the Dragonfly works very well for cooking more "gourmet" meals as well as just boiling for freeze-dried stuff. In fact, it gets used more for that than backpacking, as I typically fish almost every weekend during the summer but only go backpacking once or twice a year.