I would say that 3V, M4, and 4V are mom, dad, and kid in a sense. 3V is very tough with good edge holding, M4 is not as tough as 3V but has a lot better edge holding. Now if you marry those two you get 4V. 4V is not as tough as 3V but is tougher than M4 and has very similar edge holding to M4. I ran my 4V at 63 Rc and did normal camp/bushcraft chores with it. It is a great steel in almost all aspects. M4 and 3V have decent stain resistance, but 4V acts more like a traditional carbon steel in that it will patina quickly and will rust quickly if not cared for. I can throw another steel at you that you may want to in to, PD 1. This steel is very similar to 4V but with even more toughness. I have only made one knife from PD 1 but I was blown away by the performance. I beat on that knife harder than I had ever beat on any knife before and it would still cut printer paper. In short, all steels listed would be nearly indestructible in the short length and thickness you are looking for.