I don't have to worry about my gyutos, nakiris and slicers breaking on the bones, simply because I never use them on that. If I have to work with the bone, I have debas, meat cleavers, boning knives, etc.
Sink & countertop are either an accident or abuse. I don't abuse my knives, and I wouldn't choose the steel for the knife used daily based on accident possibility. Of course, I wouldn't mind increased resistance to those accidents, but so far out of my ~40 superhard Japanese knives none suffered from any of those problems.
Most of the popular knife steels are high speed, die, etc tool steels ad they were never designed for cutlery, the same D2 wasn't meant for knives either.
There's several steels in various catalogs and marketing brochures listed as cutlery steels, although kitchen is not specifically mentioned. Most of them are X50CrMoV15 class or worse. And that steel used in Wusthofs, Henckels, Messermeisters and other maker's kitchen knives isn't exhibiting stellar performance. Partly because it's left intentionally soft, but in the end that steel has its limits.
So, I personally think, if the steel performs well in the kitchen or any other designated task, why not use it and optimize HT for that task.