Debating selling my Large Classic w/ blackwood inlays...talk me out of it.

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Manix07

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Saving up for an engagement ring, times are tight and I've been selling off some of my blades. I'm usually ok with selling off most of my collection but seem to have doubts with the Sebbie. I've never really used it a lot and it mostly stays at home, but there's something about it that makes me not want to part.

Hoping you guys can share some stories about your Sebenzas-help make the decision of keeping it a little easier.
 
Just to be honest here, in my opinion if its down to selling the sebbie for extra funds for a better engagement ring I would sell it. In the grand scheme of things a nice engagement ring will be better in the long run lol.
 
I admit the blackwood Sebbie is beautiful, but I'd go for the engagement ring.
 
Sell it man. You can always get another. The engagement ring will be an heirloom.
 
OK, so we know there are at least 2 guys currently in the market for a Large Classic w/ blackwood inlays! :D I guess I'll be the odd man out.

If you are having enough doubt about selling it, that you're posting on an internet forum, don't do it. I've been there, almost 20 years ago when I went through my divorce (in my case it was guns) and have regretted almost every single one. Save up a few extra weeks or even a few extra months and keep your knife if you're having that much doubt. It's not like the bank is going to foreclose on your home if you don't come up with the money RIGHT NOW.
 
Yeah no kidding.. trying to decide if you want to keep an knife over doing something nice for your lady??? perhaps you aren't ready for marriage O_O There shouldn't be any question about what you should do... COMMITMENT - COMPROMISE.... just two words to think about..
 
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I have to agree with apdb90. In my collection, I would sell everything else first. That being said, I EDC my Large Classic with Snakewood. Try really using it for a week and then see how you feel about selling it. Either way, you'll end up with either a quick sale or a stellar knife in your pocket.
 
I'd keep the knife,

You don't have to have the biggest engagement ring.

MOST women think that if they get the biggest (highest carat) ring that their man loves them the most, that is BS.

I went in looking for an engagement ring with what I had in my pocket/saving at the time, and I came out with a ring that was barely 1.5 carats but the quality was stellar, no flaws/clear an plenty of facets.

We've been married for almost 4 years now and we are happier than most of our friends that have been married for less and have 3-10 carat rings.

Moral of the story, just go in there with what you have right now and find something that is in your budget that speaks to you and isn't yellow and cloudy!

She'll love you no matter what you come out with. And if she doesn't, then she didn't really love you to begin with.
 
TyFrameLock said:
I'd keep the knife,

You don't have to have the biggest engagement ring.

MOST women think that if they get the biggest (highest carat) ring that their man loves them the most, that is BS.

I went in looking for an engagement ring with what I had in my pocket/saving at the time, and I came out with a ring that was barely 1.5 carats but the quality was stellar, no flaws/clear an plenty of facets.

We've been married for almost 4 years now and we are happier than most of our friends that have been married for less and have 3-10 carat rings.

Moral of the story, just go in there with what you have right now and find something that is in your budget that speaks to you and isn't yellow and cloudy!

She'll love you no matter what you come out with. And if she doesn't, then she didn't really love you to begin with.
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I completely agree with everything above. I got my wife's ring from a large warehouse store that requires a membership. Send me a message if you still need another hint ;). When I took it to a jewelry store to get it sized, the person there told me the same ring at their shop would sell for 3 times what I paid. Seriously, go there and you will get nothing but quality.
 
Don't do things you'll regret. If you're apprehensive about selling it, chances are you'll regret it!

Unless you're shipping off to the sandbox, you shouldn't need to rush to get an engagement ring. If it's the right woman, you shouldn't need to pay more than you can afford for a ring.
 
She'll love you no matter what you come out with. And if she doesn't, then she didn't really love you to begin with.


There is a profound amount of truth in this statement.
 
I bought my wife the nicest engagement ring I could afford at the time we got engaged, and years later when I could afford much more I bought her the Uber ring and had her original engagement ring diamond made into a pendant with each of my kids birthstones incorporated into the design.

She still has the original setting - and will offer it to my daughter if she wants it when it is time.

Point being - if you really want to be together for the rest of your lives the ring shouldn't make a bit of difference. Keep the knife and buy her the best you can afford with your current funds. You can always upgrade later on down the road for an anniversary.
 
Two most important words when buying diamonds...."Eye clean".


Whats the point of paying huge amounts of money for certified diamonds for something that should never get sold?

Im not saying to get a gray industrial diamond in a potmetal setting, but be reasonable. No reason to dive into debt or anything silly like that just to buy a ceremonial showpiece.
 
Keep the knife and start using it. Keep something nice for yourself. In 10 years, you can look back at that knife and be glad you kept it, something sentimental. Don't worry about buying a big diamond ring, if she wants to be with you, then it doesnt matter. Use a credit card and pay off the ring if you don't have enough cash.
 
My vote goes for: keep it.
You wrote you used it already.
I wouldn't want to think about a knife when I see the ring.
Which is likely to happen often in your future.
OTOH: It pays to buy quality.
All the best for your engagement.
red mag
 
Posting a question like this on a knife forum :confused:

Maybe you should re think the idea of getting married.
 
Moonberrys said:
Just to be honest here, in my opinion if its down to selling the sebbie for extra funds for a better engagement ring I would sell it. In the grand scheme of things a nice engagement ring will be better in the long run lol.
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wrings panties out then comes to senses :D
 
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