Dedicated to My Loving Father.....

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DeathDancer

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Don't know exactly how to express this, because there isn't any need for smoke and prayers anymore. My father, who had a stroke and heart attack last April, is now on the last bit of time left to us. His kidneys are failing, and the hospital is sending him home to be tended and loved by those that cherish Him.

I never thought I could feel so empty or bitter or heartbroken at the same time, but I am really starting to miss my Old Man.....even though he isn't gone.

His name is Reteriano (Bart) Sevilla. He fought in the Guerillas against the Japanese War Machine in the Philippines during WWII. He was in the Navy during Korea and Vietnam. I learned a lot from him and about him. He was and is a brave and loving person, who will be missed by a lot of people.

It just seems that this has not been a good year for many of us at the Cantina. I just wanted to let a few more people know about a wonderful person...my father...before he is finally gone.

Sincerely,

Rene Sevilla
 
This is indeed the right place to do so.
Smoke rising.
 
You are among friends here. We understand your loss. If you feel like posting more about him, there are folks here who will appreciate it. This forum is sometimes not only about khukuris, as you might have guessed already :)
 
Another person I wish I'd met, DD. My father had a stroke, too. He hung on for 8 years in a nursing home. Your father's way is better, even if it doesn't seem so.

Go easy on him and yourself, if you can.
 
Thank God good men like your father were around us in life.
Take Care,


munk
 
DeathDancer said:
Don't know exactly how to express this, because there isn't any need for smoke and prayers anymore.
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Yes there is a need and smoke and prayers are sent. God bless and keep you healthy, safe and happy
 
DeathDancer said:
Don't know exactly how to express this, because there isn't any need for smoke and prayers anymore.
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kamkazmoto said:
Yes there is a need and smoke and prayers are sent. God bless and keep you healthy, safe and happy
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My thought too.
Prayers.

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Rene...my sympathies.

But, you know, our worlds are built on the strength of men like him-- anonymous to most of the rest of us; men who are the fibers in the strands of humanity, keeping us strong when they can, safe, when it is possible, and moral if we watch their acts throughout their lives.

I am sorry for your forthcoming loss. My congratulations for having had the honor of knowing him.


Be well and safe.
 
What Kis said. But Rene I will send Smoke for your father to have an easy passing and an easy journey and peace for you in your heart in time to come.
 
Rene, I am sorry that you are losing your father.

Talking to a friend yesterday who was reading the obituaries and he said, "I look at what some of these people have done with their lives and it makes mine seem pretty small". I told him, "Ben, you have raised two good children. What could be more important?"

It sounds like Reteriano Sevilla accomplished more in his life than most. Raising a family and fighting against tyranny are noble. I honor him.

Steve Ferguson
 
DeathDancer said:
the hospital is sending him home to be tended and loved by those that cherish Him.
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This sounds like it will be tough on you, but you're doing a good job. Will send smoke from the backyard.
 
It would be a great thing if you could talk to him and learn as much as possible in the time you have. Maybe you could write down some of his stories.
Anyway, We will light up some incense and hope that his light burns bright for a while yet.
 
Rene, you're not alone in this. Many people care. Your Dad was a great American, and he had a full life. Part of yours will be taking care of your parents when their time comes, as they took care of you as an infant.

The Wheel turns. I was at my mother's side with her last days in hospice. I left my job to care for my dad when he needed me, until he too was gone.

I have no regrets. It was my duty as a son.

I'll remember your dad at sunset with smoke, and one for you too.

Ad Astra
 
Smoke and prayers for you, your family, and your father, Rene. You are not alone here. Thank you for sharing a little bit of your father with us. We are all better for knowing of his deeds.

Jake
 
I remember the same situation not too long ago in my own little world.

My prayers and good thoughts are with you both. I feel your pain.
 
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