Congrats on such a cool wife. I'm another of the lucky few to have one like yours.
The wife and I went to the gun show Sunday for my Birthday. I am looking for a new carry pistol and looked at several. I got the feeling she wouldn't have stopped me if I had decided to make a purchase. Ended getting another 12rd mag for my P99 .40 and she got a Kershaw Scallion. She's really cool about my knife and gun purchases. She even bought me my first Busse and my first Benchmade. I think I talk myself out of stuff more than she does. In fact now that i think about it I don't think she has ever disapproved of a purchase. With being a parent, the ecomomy, being out of work (I'm getting unemployment but it's not the same as working 50-60 hour weeks) and going back to school I'm being extremely cautious about any unneccessary purchases. It sucks being responsible sometimes.
You are a lucky man my friend.