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Ipistol

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So I just recently got a spyderco police in stainless and a dragonfly tattoo for my wife. And unfortunate events, car problems, lost my job and had to return the knives because I needed the money for bills. I'm not looking for any charity I just wanted to share this with someone. Going to be using a Gerber eZ out for a while.

Loved the knives while we had them and it really hurt to let them go especially since they were our first high end knives.
 
I remember I got fired from a job, the first time in my life, and it had nothing to do with me. Any way to make a long story short, hind site it was the best thing that happened to me. Couple weeks later I got a better job with a better boss, more money, then 6 months later got even better job with a better boss making $6 dollars hour more than the last job, paid holidays vacation sick days, and mind you this is in the construction field, it's unheard of. Then couple years later opened my own business.

Point is, something better is around the corner coming your way.
 
It really sucks because I'm not really that old and I don't have a lot of experience. Being a 20 year old guy places look at me like I'm a dime a dozen. Count me out before they ever even interview me.
 
How would you like to trade places with a guy who's way past retirement age? Count your blessings, friend.
 
Ipistol said:
It really sucks because I'm not really that old and I don't have a lot of experience. Being a 20 year old guy places look at me like I'm a dime a dozen. Count me out before they ever even interview me.
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Count your advantages. Think why companies hire young and not old. Inexperience is quickly reversed by study and diligence. Always volunteer, be the one they can count on.
 
Man, I'm only 40, but I've spent the last 20 years riding a firetruck. I can't even remember back to when I was 20! This is HUGE in your life right now, I understand that. But this my younger friend, is NOTHING in your life, in a grand perspective. Trust me on this. There have been some guys already give you some very solid advice. Heed it, take it to heart, work hard, keep your head up, and finally, let us know how this works out for you. I know it will!
 
Ipistol said:
It really sucks because I'm not really that old and I don't have a lot of experience. Being a 20 year old guy places look at me like I'm a dime a dozen. Count me out before they ever even interview me.
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Practice interviewing, give them a reason to remember you. Ask them questions during your interview, it'll impress them.
 
Cereal_killer said:
Practice interviewing, give them a reason to remember you. Ask them questions during your interview, it'll impress them.
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Definitely. Also smile, make good eye contact, use a strong handshake and dress to impress. Not saying you fit this stereotype, but nowadays whenever I see a younger dude applying for a position, they show up in sneakers, jeans and a t-shirt. Gotta fancy it up for interview time!

I'm married and have a little girl. My wife has been out of work for a while now due to the fact that we don't have a sitter and can't afford the daycare/headstart programs. So the 3 of us rely soley on my income. I know all about that "living from paycheck to paycheck" life and unfortunately have had to visit the pawn shop many times for gas/grocery money. It hurts to get rid of your blades, I completely understand that. But the good thing is Spyderco ain't going anywhere in the near future.

Keep your chin up, stay motivated/determined and try your best to understand things will get better. A certain quote comes to mind that goes great with your situation.

"Tough times don't last, tough people do."
 
Have you considered enlisting in the military? You get to earn the honor and privilege of becoming part of something bigger than yourself that few events in live can match plus you can earn a living and learn a career/trade. It's not all easy but to serve is an honor. To serve with honor is ones duty.
 
Ipistol said:
So I just recently got a spyderco police in stainless and a dragonfly tattoo for my wife. And unfortunate events, car problems, lost my job and had to return the knives because I needed the money for bills. I'm not looking for any charity I just wanted to share this with someone. Going to be using a Gerber eZ out for a while.

Loved the knives while we had them and it really hurt to let them go especially since they were our first high end knives.
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I wish you luck my friend and that you encounter good things soon. Be thankful for what you do have and don't think about what you don't have.
May the wind always be at your back.:thumbup:
 
Spent most of the day so far today looking for jobs applying calling places. Hopefully something happens soon.
 
Join the military. That is what I did. Ended up with a pension and a BA and Masters degree, earned in the Army.
 
Ipistol said:
It really sucks because I'm not really that old and I don't have a lot of experience. Being a 20 year old guy places look at me like I'm a dime a dozen. Count me out before they ever even interview me.
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What I would do when I was your age and at a interview, I would ask the boss if he would just let me work 1 day to show him that I am a great qualified worker and he wouldn't even have to pay me for that day, just give me a chance you have nothing to lose. 9 times out of 10 I got the job, this shows the employer that your confident and willing to go to any lengths for employment
 
years ago I interviewed for a job at a bicycle shop. I was the only guy to show up in a tie. Guess which of the 13 people interviewed got the job?

Look at this time in your life as an opportunity to grow your skills. Go to school, learn a skill, volunteer somewhere. You'd be surprised at how many opportunities arise out of volunteering. People running whatever charity/event/etc are often in big business and notice those volunteers who go above and beyond. Find something you believe in and share your time and skills. Museums always need volunteers and often offer training as well.

I know none of that meets immediate monetary needs, but hopefully you can keep your head above water long enough to nail something down. Oh, and should you get a job from volunteering, please don't stop.
 
I hope you didn't use those knives before sending them back. If so you stuck the store with a used knife that they can no longer sell.

Just be glad you are young and healthy and can do anything if you really want to. Just be glad your not like me. 34 and disabled for the last ten years and can't work and have to live with my parents. Could be worse though. I could be dead or not have my parents and be living under an over pass. I would trade places in a heartbeat.
 
As others have said, it sucks now but don't let it slow you down. I've had 46 different employers. Been with my current one for 12 years and hope I can stay until retirement. Never got fired, just laid off, shut down or left for a better job. In the mean time I went back to school and got a BS and Masters. Ironically I am in a job that does not require them but the experience learned is always a great advantage. I know it sucks, just never give up, you will get there. Heck if I did anyone can.:thumbup:
 
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