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Hello, all.
I recently got married , and my wife has a son, a 4 y.o., from a previous relationship. I would like to adopt him, so as to make our family truly one .
Does anyone here have any experience with a diy adoption? Did it seem to be as complex as one would imagine? Did it become so troublesome that you had to hire a lawyer? Or, would hiring a lawyer from the beginning just be the most reasonable thing? In my wife's considered opinion, our son's biological father wouldn't be averse to giving up his rights, as he has not been very involved in the childs upbringing from the start. Also, she has discussed this matter with him in the past, with only positive responses on his part. FYI, we live in New York state.
Thanks for your input,
Frank
I recently got married , and my wife has a son, a 4 y.o., from a previous relationship. I would like to adopt him, so as to make our family truly one .
Does anyone here have any experience with a diy adoption? Did it seem to be as complex as one would imagine? Did it become so troublesome that you had to hire a lawyer? Or, would hiring a lawyer from the beginning just be the most reasonable thing? In my wife's considered opinion, our son's biological father wouldn't be averse to giving up his rights, as he has not been very involved in the childs upbringing from the start. Also, she has discussed this matter with him in the past, with only positive responses on his part. FYI, we live in New York state.
Thanks for your input,
Frank