kamkazmoto said:
The fact that it is illegal is enough for me.
Beyond legality there are the higher issues of ethics and morality. The fact that your daughter is involved makes this even more significant. Far to many of today's youth are growing up in a culture of stomach-thinking.
The stomach thinks only about its own wants and "needs," about what fills it up and makes it feel good.
Too many people these days have adopted a lifestyle centered around the stomach-driven mantra of, "If it feels good to me, then I should do it... without any thought or concern about others."
Technology sometimes promotes and accelerates this because it makes things easy and convenient. Pornography is a good example of this. In the "good old days," a person wanting this sort of thing had to go to a seedy establishment in a bad part of town; for most it was not easy, clean, or convenient. Today, one pushes a few buttons on the TV remote or clicks a few links with a mouse, and there it is delivered to your living room TV or PC quickly and cleanly and conveniently. But does new-found convenience make it right? Of course not.
This raises the ever-greater need to teach children to think with their heads and not with their stomachs. Just becasue something immediately gratifies your stomach's desires does not make it right. It's up to the brain to step in and make that distinction. It's up to the brain to say, "that is illegal or unethical, or immoral." That's higher-level thinking and children have to be taught it. Our instant-total-gratification popular culture of consumerism does not teach this. It is up to responsible parents like Mr. kamkazmoto to teach this to them.
In this day and age of technology which can deliver so much instant-total-gratification, responsible parents have to teach children that just because something is possible, just because it is clean and easy, just because other people are doing it, just because it serves their own selfish desires, doesn't make it right.
Our stomach-thinking popular-culture teaches children that in order to be a happy person, a popular person, a good person, you have to wear the right designer cloths. Oh, and you can get knock-off copies that look just like the real thing on this website over here. Our stomach-thinking popular-culture teaches children that in order to be a happy person, a popular person, a good person, you have all the right songs on your MP3 player. Oh, and you can download them all for free from this website over here. Our stomach-thinking popular-culture teaches a corporate CEO that he needs a thousand-dollar shower curtain to be happy and successful. Oh, and you can get that by just doctoring these books a little... never mind what it will do to your employess and your investors because what matters is what's hanging in your bathroom. And our stomach-thinking popular-culture teaches a congressman that he needs a yacht and house full of antique furniture to be happy and successful. Oh, and you can get it by taking these bribes.
In all of these cases, the stomach is given to rule over the brain. The stomach says, "I want those jeans, I want those music files, I want that shower curtain, I want that yacht. And that want justifies any means to get it." and the brain is subjugated to the task of figuring out which links to click on or which books to doctor to get what the stomach desires.
So it is that our stomach-thinking popular-culture makes it more important for parents to teach their children brain-thinking, to teach children to think beyond their own selfish wants and desires and beyond the wants and desires that that stomach-thinking popular-culture imposes on them. Parents must teach children that it is the brain that must rule over the stomach.
Downloading and sharing MP3 files is a good place to start. Parents can start by explaining to children that the fact that you can fill your MP3 player with all the right songs by just clicking on a few links does not make it legal or ethical or morally right to do so. Sometimes, legality and -- more importantly -- ethics and morality demand that we forego what our stomach wants even when it's just a mouse click -- or a briefcase full of cash -- away.