As to the question of drying for years. When wood is cut fresh it has moisture throughout the wood fibers. More in the softer cambium and sapwood areas, and less in the denser heart portion. As the wood slowly dries, the moisture reaches a point where the outside ambient moisture and the wood are equal.It still isn't stable yet. The point of stability comes when the core of the wood and the surface of the wood are the same. On woods that are very dense (ebony, ironwood, etc.) this can take many years. Until this point is reached, it still can crack because it is unstable .
Movement of the wood after being finished is a result of the wood gaining and loosing moisture content due to absorption. This can be reduced by stabilizing with a resin or oil. If the entire exposed surface is not sealed, the wood will still warp.
One common misconception is to relate relative humidity with moisture content. I often hear," Wood could never get to 10% moisture content here in the South where the average humidity is 80%." These are two different percentages. Moisture content is a percentage of weight. One pound of water in a ten pound log is 10% moisture content. Relative humidity is the ratio of the amount of water present in air to the maximum amount possible at any given temperature. 10% humidity means it can hold 90% more moisture, not that the air is 10% water ( and 100% humidity does not mean that the air is pure water. It would be really hard to breath during a rain storm if that were so!).
Stacy