Okay, I'm still a bit confused but this is all helping. There's one thing in particular that I need clarification on: So a harder material will be able to flex more before permanently or plastically deforming? Or is that wrong?
Can somebody give me all the terms reletive to this topic and their opposites so I know which ones go with which ones?
Thanks everybody for the help,
Bo
Does this help?
Strength [material property]: a measure of how much stress (applied load distributed throughout a material) a
material can withstand. This is completely independent of geometry of the object, as it's a material property. Generally we refer to yield strength, or the load a material can take without permanently deforming; if exceeded, the material has plastically deformed and will not return to it's original shape. There's also ultimate strength, which is the maximum stress a material can take before complete fracture.
Hardness [material property]: roughly speaking is a measure of how difficult it is to dent or scratch a material. There's lots of ways to test this and standards to define this with (Rockwell C scale is a popular one used in this industry). Hardness is positively correlated with strength on most steels, but they are not the same thing, and there are steels that are strong but not hard and vice versa. For a rough estimate, though, there are charts that you can use to estimate strength based on hardness for certain kinds of steels.
Elastic Modulus [material property]: a measure of how much a
material strains, or changes shape, when stress is applied to it. The higher the modulus, the less the material will change shape when under load. This is only applicable for elastic materials and only until a material exceeds its yield strength.
Stiffness [object property]: a measure of how much an
object changes shape when a load is applied to it. This depends on the object geometry and the elastic modulus
In your example, a stronger/harder steel object will take more load to deform permanently than a weaker one. A stiffer object will deflect less when loaded than an object with lower stiffness. However, how much an object deflects and how much load an object can sustain are governed by different properties entirely, so it's impossible to answer your original question.
For example: Let's say you built identical rods out of 6Al-4V titanium and 202 grade stainless steel, and clamped one end of each in a vice. If you put weight on the end of both, you should expect the 6Al-4V titanium rod to deflect more, because it has a lower elastic modulus than 202 stainless (about 30% lower). However, 6Al-4V titanium is has a higher yield strength than 202 stainless; therefor, if you continued to load the rods with more weight, the 6Al-4V rod would hold substantially more weight than 202 stainless before it developed any permanent bend (plastic deformation).