I think I will throw my hat into this ring: I am a retired licensed hearing aid dispenser
, April 2021, son of a WWII Marine who had a severe hearing loss from a little place called Tarawa, a man who was smart but was treated like he was dumb as dirt because he could not hear well. Hearing loss respects no one! For those above who have a loss,, I understand! Please wear your aids .... when appropriate!
Britt, I reread both of your posts.... I sounds like you have a perforated tympanic membrane, I.e. Ear drum.
For those who have young babies, toddlers, etc., .... the eustacion tube in children is fairly flat... the middle ear is lined with mucous membranes... so if your nose is running so is your middle ear! In the young ones the eustachion tube clogs easily, the pressure from mucous secretion builds up, the ear drum bulges causing pain and babies cry. Hell, grown men cry! Hurts almost as bad as a kidney stone. So if your child is fussy and pulling at an ear... get medical care immediately!
For the younger men .... you ain't bullet proof and maybe in five or twenty years and all those insults to your hearing may result in some sweet thing entreating you for some 'pillow talk' in the wee hours .... which you missed. Just saying!
The National Institute for Occupational Safety and Health , NIOSH, has a sound level meter app..... NIOSH SLM. It is a great app! In my garage/shop the noisiest equipment is the Bauer portable bandsaw..... 108 dB.... per the app, "110dB Regular and prolonged unprotected exposure of more than 1.5 (That is NOT a typo!) minutes per day risks permanent hearing loss." The app is free!
Ear plugs and ear muffs ( I am ignoring noise cancellation devices because I have no experience nor knowledge to speak definitively). Fit, fit, fit... if not inserted or worn properly .... well you ge t the picture. The last time I looked at the disclaimers on the packaging both ear plugs and muffs only reduced sound about 26 - 29'dB ...
I could go ... and on... but won't! Protect your hearing for your sake! For your family! For your friends , co-workers, customers!