Not a DMT, you're not trying to cut them, you're trying to fracture them, they're highly friable. An old file works great.
The DMT diamonds are monocrystalline and not very friable. however, they're set in the surface of the hone with an electroplate method, which doesn't hold the large diamonds very well.
They leave the electroplate quickly and will leave a void behind, leaving the remaining stones that are finer still cutting. Eventually, those will dull, but I've taken microscope pictures of various inexpensive diamond hones and the particles even when they're dull stay there - except the big ones - the big ones leave almost right away.
They also pose an initial problem in a polishing process - very deep stray scratches. The grading of the diamonds is not very good compared to lapidary powders which can be applied to a piece of smooth cast iron and used like a diamond hone as long as one is polishing hardened steel.
Here is a picture from a brand new 400 grit side on a monocrystalline diamond hone - these are done on a flat surface (the back side of a chisel that's probably 60-62 hardness, but relatively plain tool steel:
Hardened steel - new 400 grit diamond hone
same hone new, 1000 grit
A much older and well worn atoma 400 grit diamond hone:
I have others of the first two stone that are worn, and they are about as slow as the atoma - just a view of the two 400s in comparison shows how things change when the big diamonds have been pulled off of the electroplate.
This causes woodworkers to conclude that even though they're casual users, that their diamond hones "wore out right away".
Ezelap used to offer diamond hones with monocrystalline diamonds (more prone to fracture and even and sharp, if becoming finer, cut), but the last time I read their specs, that had gone to a mix at least. I'm not a diamond expert, but at the time understood that monocrystalline diamonds were cheaper. DMT touted them.
I think if diamonds aren't absolutely needed, friable silicon carbide will leave a lot less follow up work and stray scratching.
Very fine cheap diamond lapidary works great in cast iron or for very fine finishes, even wood - if the diamonds are cheap enough. 1 micron in wood will leave a blindingly bright level of polish that my microscope doesn't see as having any visible scratches.
Far beyond an
8000 grit waterstone polish
Autosol on hardwood is also very good at a very bright polish finish without eliminating crisp lines.
(I see that EDMs are offered both in alumina and silicon carbide. Both are good choices depending on whether the hardness of the stones fit the use. Sharpening side, they look identical to india and crystolon stones, respectively, which also vary a good bit in hardness. Older fine carborundum stones may also be useful - they usually shed grit pretty easily and can be found in high levels of fineness and often in groups of stones for almost nothing).