Same with my wife and I. However it is amazing what neonatal intensive care can do these days. I would bank on the baby pulling through. Babies are a lot tougher than we give them credit for.
My son was 18 days in neo natal ICU when he was born. they had a picture wall of hundreds of babies born at 1lb and a later pic of them as toddlers, Graduates of High School, playing soccer, etc.
tell your friends to keep the faith...It will be alright..Doctors always say the worst incase the worst happenes..however Life has a way of living...
Keep us updated..
Ren