The flexibility of a steel (the amount it deflects under a given load, within the range of elastic deformation) is dictated by its thickness. This is one of those things that is counter intuitive until you test it yourself, but trust me the science is sound. The modulus of elasticity of steel is right at 30000 KSI regardless of alloy or hardness.
Go thinner to get more flexible.
Spring tempers are softer and more ductile and less notch sensitive and will take a permanent kink before breaking, but in the useful range of blade hardness the steel type doesn't make a difference.
The stiffness of a blade, when the thickness is doubled, increases 8X. And the opposite is also true.