When I am having issues with refining the apex going with a softer bond will always fix them, always. All the variables do play a part but bond hardness is possibly the biggest variable in my experience. Plated diamonds are the most aggressive cutting tool there is, with the least give, so they tend to do the most damage to the underlying work material. My post was mainly about how the fine plated diamonds still leave a toothy edge, which I think have far more to do with the damage to the apex than scratches making a saw tooth edge.