"I don't think anyone was being harsh, rude or otherwise. I certainly tried to word that in such a way that it DIDN'T sound that way."
You can't help it.
I've been lurking here for years.
As well-intentioned as you may be, you come across like an _______.
Fill in the blank.
And please, don't take offense to it... I tried to word it in such a way that it DIDN'T sound like I was calling you an _______.
Fill in the blank.
Well, the appropriate way to say this was by PM, but since you elected to not recieve them, we will do this in the thread, as trashy as that may be. Here is the clean version of what was to be a PM to you:
Telling someone they are being an a------ ; is being a p---- and an a------ at the same time. And saying 'no offense' doesn't cover the five times you call someone an a------.
I type the way I talk. I dont surround things in pleasantries and tell people what I think very directly. If this is taken as being an a------- as you put it, then so be it. I do certainly compliment at the same time, especially when it is due.
I have been working these materials for years, know my metallurgy, started working steel 20 years ago and also started into design and fabrication at that age. I have successful designs in several related industries, and beta test for s couple of companies. I have a resume when it comes to using a knife that trumps most, and I think my work stands for itself. When someone wants an opinion, I offer it in the hopes they will learn from my mistakes and successes and shorten their learning curve. Do I surround it with needless banter? No, but why should I. And furthermore, I paid to be here, so I use that privilidge to discuss my work from time to time.
If you would prefer to say something to my face rsther than drop out of the ether to post on a thread, please oay me a visit. I'll be glad to show you a good time. You might even learn a thing or two.
These young makers often have smoke blown up their kiester. They are at an opportune time to develop and become a real talent in the craft. If they hear the truth, and not just 'oooo's and aaaaah's' because of their age then they can truly grow.
And sometimes I post a smart-a-- reply to those who tend to spread a bunch of crap around here and have no experience to back it up. Their critiques of someone else's hard work when they've never touched a piece of steel? Now that's being an a------.
Cheers. Good luck with all of your endeavors.
-Eric