I completely understand the different points of view, especially when I left out the environment. VERY rural county, everyone knows everyone, nephews live down a dirt road surrounded by lots of woods where they ride their 4-wheelers, etc. Neighbors are all family and friends. I actually managed some land not to far away when I worked as a forester. And their mother is on board.
I debated on the Flash-1, but the extra lock that keeps the blade closed, the axis lock, and the handle's finger groves seem to be made for a childs hand sold me. I have mixed feelings myself about the opening assist, but my hopes are when they open the knife for use, it will assist in opening it fully. I wish it had a more traditional look, but that is my personal preference and it shouldn't really make a difference as they are only allowed to carry under supervision, which will not be in public (by circumstance, not public pressure).
Thanks again for the input.