Last summer I decided to take the plunge and volunteered for an after school drop in program for "at risk" middle schoolers. This was back in September in time for opening day. They were only asking for 1-2 hours per week which is pretty minimal. Originally I was going to be there Monday, Thursday and Friday as long as the doors were open. However, during my interview it became apparent to me that I was the only volunteer they had. To confirm this I asked if this were true and the manager said it was. Soooo, I told her that she had one now. So I am there, Monday through Friday from 2pm-5:30pm and have committed for the entire school year. Later I learned that because of budget considerations they had to ask for volunteers because there was no money to pay for an assistant. So in reality I have saved the organization quite a lot of money. Some of which, though not enough to pay for an assistant goes a long way towards other needs. We feed them a decent meal every day, get supplies for art projects, rent movies on Fridays, etc.
Some of these kids have pretty rough lives. Parents who are meth addicts, single parent homes, abusive families .... you name it, we see it. In some cases I am a father/uncle/big brother type figure to some of these kids. I take very seriously the impact or potential to have a positive influence over them. I'm kind of old school (45 years old), raised by an ex Marine, yes sir/no sir kind of guy. They respond pretty well for having someone hold them accountable when they screw up. Guess it's because I'm fair and they know I like them but the rules need to be followed. I have also fixed just about ever piece of equipment they have .... pool tables, air hockey table, foos ball table, coffee table, end tables, front door lock, to name just a few. I am trusted to the point that I was given keys to the facility and am now on the board of directors.
We had a special Halloween party where everyone dressed up in costumes, played games, dunked for apples. We also had a sit down Thanksgiving dinner for the kids ..... candles, real plates and silverware. We also has a little Christmas shindig for them as well, litte presents, hot chocolate, made and decorated cookies, the whole deal. Sadly, for many of these kids this is better than what they get at home. For some of these things we stayed open later than normal, and man it was all fun.
Since my wife and I have no children of our own, I have been asked why I would want to do this? Why would I want to spend time with troubled kids? It's sad really, that a stranger wants to spend more time with someone else's kid than their own parents do. Anyway, I guess it's also because I feel that at some point we lose them. We lose them to drugs, trouble with the law, dropping out of school and an assortment of other bad choices. Maybe, just maybe, there's a slim chance I can (in my small way) keep that from happening to some of them. Maybe something I say or by an example of what I do will help some of them make the right decision down the line when situations come up. Are there any quarantees? Nope, not a one. But to me, it's worth trying, these kids are worth the effort. Their lives matter. We, you and I, can deal with them now, or deal with them later. Personally, I would rather see them grow up to be happy, enjoy life, be productive than see them wind up in jail, dead or worse ... and yes, unfortunately there are worse things than death.
Don't know if this counts or not towards the contest. Doesn't matter really, maybe this will inspire some of you to do something positive in your community. Just as I was inspired two Christmas's ago by Ren the Devils Trail Boss and his good deed for a family in need. I wish I could have helped him out this last Christmas, but money was pretty tight this year.
Ren should be considered for this contest without even entering in my book. He's a very good human being, despite his poo pictures. In fact, consider this entry for Ren, not me.
Anyway, onward and upward!