Even though the DMT EF is rated at 9 microns, it cuts like a more coarse stone. The Spyderco F is rated at 6 microns, but it cuts slower than a corresponding waterstone and burnishes the edge a lot because of it's composition.
In my experience, the finish left by the DMT EF is fairly close to the finish left by the Spyderco M. The Spyd M might be slightly more coarse; it depends on how much pressure you used on the DMT EF. The lighter the pressure, the more fine the edge and scratch pattern will become. With any stone.
In practice, I have jumped from the DMT EF to the Spyderco UF stone several times and produced a decent mirrored edge that behaves like a laser. It does fairly incredible cutting tricks like treetopping hair, push cutting phonebook paper at 90 degrees effortlessly, etc. But the mirror finish is far from perfect. It has scratches in it that are very hard to remove with just the Spyd UF. You really need a stone or two in between if you want a brightly reflective mirror finish with no scratches in it at all.
So it's up to you. You could get the Spyd M and F. Or you could get a few waterstones at similar micron equivalent ratiings. Or you could just live with the crazy performing edges that a Spyd UF can give you and not have a perfect mirror finish.
I hope this helps in some way.
Brian.