okay ladies and gentlemen life is good. deleted the evil sbc/dialup software, configured my modem manually, and now my computer is quite possibly the most awesome computer in the world. as far as xp being evil i am much like a woman in that regard, I've made up my mind and will not be confused by the facts. as far as apple computers go, well just suffice it to say they make me nervous. and the people who use them even more so. they tend to be zealots regarding there choice of machine. I really appreciate all the help and want to say a THANKS. knife people are pretty good at being handy in many different areas. It's funny i got better help here than at the dell forum.
thanks again, ahgar, owner of the ulitmate computer.
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