You might be overthinking this. With a VFD, you are not limited to 1,600 ft/min, you can adjust the speed down to your liking. I have a KBAC-27D on a DIY grinder with a 7" Ameribrade drive wheel and an 1,800 rpm motor and I can adjust it to very slow speed. The Ameribrade wheel is very nicely made and the company was great to deal with, very promptly answered my questions.
I don't want to cause any confusion, but here are some more details. The drive wheel size will obviously control the belt speed for a given frequency. Once you pick your wheel size and maximum frequency, the top speed is set. If you set your top speed way higher than you ever need, you lose resolution on your speed control dial. But you can still reach all the same slow speeds you can reach with a lower top end speed. So, the choice of drive wheel size is not all that critical as long as the wheel is big enough.
With a VFD where the maximum frequency is fully programmable, you can program the VFD to give you the same top belt speed whether you have a 6" or 7" wheel. With the KBAC-27D drive, that is not the case because there are some limitations on the maximum frequency. The KBAC-27D drive has a 1X/2X setting and a separate max. speed adjustment from 0.7x-1.1x, and the two adjustments can be used in combination. That means you can adjust your top end frequency from 42-132Hz, with a gap between 66-84Hz. So, the useful top end range is essentially from 84-132 Hz. For the 7" wheel, you get a top speed range of approx. 4,500 ft/min to 7,050 ft/min and for a 6" wheel you would get 3,800 ft/min to 6,050 ft/min. I think around 5,000 ft/min is a good top speed to aim for and both sizes can achieve that. That's all personal preference, though, and to figure out what you like, you just have to get a bit of experience. But it is not a big deal if you get a 7" wheel and then figure out you never want to grind above 4,000 ft/min. You are just losing around 10% of you adjustment range, I doubt you will ever even notice the difference in practice.