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Jon Brand

Jon Brand

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Im having a tough time in my life. long story and a bit complicated but Stress has gotten the best of me so I have been just keeping to myself. I did get much more into my old coin collecting habbits (which wont effect my knife hobby) and have been doing research but other then that I have been feeling concerned about everything, just a bit depressed and have been neglecting the forum lately. Im also in limbo about a big job opportunity that I am waiting for and its just hard to do any planning. The knives in my display case have been sleeping with a towel covering the glass for a few weeks. All my personal stress and re-occurrence of Lyme has been paying a physical toll on me including weird eye twitches and just stupid shit like that. Its getting better finally though. I am on treatment for the lyme and hope it improves again. Fun. =/

BTW I am expecting a son around the exact time of the upcoming blade show. I am upset about missing the show and seeing everyone, but life comes first. Some months ago I had no idea about this, and the drastic curve my life is about to take. She found out very VERY late in the pregnancy... I hope I am ready for this and am learning all that I can.

Guys let me remember why I love you all here. Show me things that make you happy! But try not to make me TOO jealous. =)
THANKS!

BTW, my knife site is now integrated with coins... so I guess I have had some fun playing with the site. You will see both on there so check it out if you dare.

This isn't a cry for help. Just inspiration and eye candy!
 
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It happens to the best of us. Been there. Wish there was some magic words or photos I could post to snap you out of your funk. There is no substitute for real human interaction. Here is a pic of a knife just for fun. I posted this because it is similar to your Tim Hancock mammoth hunter, which I have admired on your website.

 
You gotta let it go man, it is what it is and things will be what they will be. At the end of the day, you can choose to let the stress rule or let it go.


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No matter how bad things get there is something good around the corner. Change your routine and do something different and hang in there !
 
Hello Jon. Sorry to hear of your troubles. It can be tough not knowing what lies ahead, however you can also look at it as an adventure. At times I wish I didn't know what was ahead. ;):)

Anyway, I don't collect coins however my father was a noted Civil War Historian and long time relic hunter. He dug up probably a 1/2 dozen or so gold coins over the years and would always gift them to his granddaughters. Here's a couple that I was able to get poor images of. They were always in excellent condition especially considering being under 3"-6" of dirt for about 150 years.

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Also, here's a couple knives I know you are fond of:

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I have read your word you are with friends and have a drink to your health, even if it is not easy we think of you


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get better

allain
 
I have always found taking a daily walk is good for battling depression. It is good for you, and let's you soak in the incredible world that the good Lord has blessed us with. Never forget that God loves you my brother.
 
Jonathan,
CONGRATULATIONS on YOUR SON. :)
Start looking forward to His arrival and think about the future and Your time with Him.
NOTHING WILL BE BETTER THEN THAT. :thumbup: :thumbup:
As far as today and this week, You probably live near some great outdoor scenery or a museum.
I would recommend take some time to relax and think of something else to declutter Your brain.
 
I thought your dad was a shrink, Jon. In any case, if knife pics work, do what works. But nothing works better than to find a technique to clear your mind of all thought and utilize it.
 
Jonathan,
Exercise, exercise! Walk, run, dance. Anything aerobic has always been good for me.
I wish you well. You will feel better.

Sincerely,

Russ

PS Didn't I read that you once were into keeping reptiles? If you want let me know and I can email you some pics.
 
No pictures nice enough to show Jonathan but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Also battling health issues here so believe me I sympathize.
 
Typical of humans, we all have a lot of energy when we are happiest. At our lowest state of "energy" is depression. A step up from that is anger. Get mad about something. It's funny but suddenly you'll have some energy. Get out and exercise. Go someplace that you love, be it the forest, the beach, the movies or the mall. Ride a roller coaster. Twice. Three times, get the adrenaline pumping. Take a hammer and nails and beat them into a piece of 2x4. We are physical beings and need to move. Call an old friend up and talk about anything else but your situation. Don't even go near it. Move your job opportunity to the front, pursue it like it was the last piece of meat on earth. Get away from the Internet and get outside, sit and look at the stars. No matter how bad your life seems to be, think of it this way; you are a lot better off than the guy who has a bunch of sirens converging on his location.
 
Thanks for the posts. I was very tired when I posted so after work tonight I will edit to make it more cohesive. :)
 
Jon,
All good advice above, especially doing some of the things you like that will burn off some nervous energy.
Diet is huge for well being. I read some books on the subject and went "gluten free" for the most part. Also gave up sugar and absolutely no artificial sweeteners. I lost 20 pounds and can think much clearer. My memory is better and anxiety went away as well and now I can spend much more time at what I like to do. Read the book "wheat belly" and you'll see that wheat is the culprit but coupled with sugar we don't have a chance at a normal life.
 
Man, what an exciting time in your life!! you have a child on the way?!?!? Who needs a knife show when you will be receiving an amazing gift! I've got two boys and they have changed my life for the better!

These down times pass, and I can understand that a child on the way could add to the stress, but once the child is here, hopefully the stress will ease.
 
Knife collecting is mostly a vanity and / or cure for boredom.. The pursuit is exciting. The joys of sharing your finds, etc.. These are fun. But, not essential to quality of life. I have determined that $35 custom woodcarving knives are just as meaningful to me, using these fur everyday chores as a thousand or multi thousand dollar bowie or camp knife. Less glamour, maybe.. But more practical. A small sharp knife is all i really need. I still enjoy the picture-show here, almost every day.
Good luck Jon, best wishes on your new arrival, by stork. My own kids care nothing for knives, like their dad has. Puts it all into perspective.. No obsession is worth all of your time. Keep the display cases covered as long as you feel like it. I think its healthy to step back and get out.. Take a breath. Give yourself time. Take some good nature hikes too. It helps for me, clears the mind. I can send you a carving knife if you want to try it out as an EDC. I really like using to them, most have 1.5" blades..
David
 
Jonathan, it would be worth seeking professional help on this. There are several types of depression, some can be treated through lifestyle changes, and others are more medical, based in genetics, and need medical treatment. I experience bipolar depression, seasonal depression, and ADHD. While there are definitely downsides to this, these conditions have some upsides in the great tradeoff life is. If you are overeating, sleeping in, irritable, feel heavy, sensitive to rejection,and have a reactive mood, lifestyle isn't likely to help you. If you are waking early, lost your appetite, and feel sad, then lifestyle changes are more likely to benefit you. There is a lot of symptom overlap with different conditions, so self diagnosis is tricky. Its tough, my thoughts are with you.
 
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