It would help if you took some better photos with your 1000 grit finish before etching. Once you dipped in ferric, it’s all dark and hard to make heads or tails of the hamon. I usually do quick dips in ferric then hard scrubbing with makeup pads.
As far as the steel wool goes, I don't use it. When I get to 1200 grit or so I’m using either flitz or more often 1500 powdered abrasives.
Start with a good clean sanded blade.
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You’ll be able to see some hamon in the right light
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After dipping in ferric or vinegar and scrubbing with makeup pad you should still see contrast.
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The more you etch and polish, the more your hamon will present itself.
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I’m not sure who on here said it first, but it bears repeating, etch less polish more. Until you’re happy with what you have.
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