First of all, if you are having issues with the results of wet-shaving, never assume that you know what the cause is. It could be any number of things. First identify what the issue is and then what the
possible cause is.
This is absolutely correct.
Aha... that's the issue. How do you know if the cause is your pre-shave? Irritation could be caused by bad lather, an overly-dull blade, any number of technique problems (shaving at too deep an angle on the ATG pass, using too much pressure, passing over the same area too many times, etc., etc.), sensitivity to a product, etc., etc.
Also, everybody has a "tough beard and sensitive skin." That's a psychological thing.
Yes, the issue is the irritation that will show up immediately after a shave. My technique is pretty solid, I am actually pretty methodical in my routines, going over my mental checklist everytime I shave. I almost never use an Against the grain pass.
My beard is dense with a coarse texture, even when I grow it out. Also my skin does react to mild irritations much more than others, I got a small break out just from cooking bacon, not even eating it!
This is indeed abnormal. This is what we need to focus on. Before even going into the pre-prep, you need to figure out:
1. Are you building a good lather? If you can take a hi-rez pic of your lather on your brush (and tell us what the soap/cream is), that would help. Poorly built lather that dries out or is bubbly/foamy won't cushion your face properly. Good lather is built with a lot of product, the correct amount of water, and a lot of whipping and incorporating. When the lather is slick and "wet" looking with no visible bubbles at all and peaking like meringue, that's when you've got a proper lather. A proper lather retains moisture and doesn't dry out. It cushions the blade and should be left on the beard for a full 1-2 minutes before you start shaving. It should stay slick on the beard throughout the pass.
I alway make sure that my lather is up to par with the description you provide, dumping and starting over if needed. I'm at work now but I will try to post pics when I can. I bowl lather with primarily C.O. Bigelow from Bath & Body Works in the mall, but occasionally use RazoRock Classic Cream.
I learned first hand what bad lather feels like when I started. Blade and razor head dragging and hopping across my skin, drying out before first pass is done, etc.
2. Are you using the correct pressure/angle? Shaving is like sharpening a knife. It's all about pressure and angle. Are you keeping the blade around 30 degrees to your face? Here's a pic of what that looks like. Yes, I made the pic (for the B&B shaving forum).
Are you using a feather-light touch, especially on the ATG pass? Are you dialing the razor down low for that final pass?
that's a handy little diagram! I used the method of putting the head at 0* against my face and slowly rocking it down just untill I saw/felt the blade touch my skin, which works out to very close to 30*. The only pressure is from the weight of the razor typically, not even enough to deform my skin. I also make sure not to over stretch my skin, like my neck and jaw line.
3. Now, on to beard-prep. It sounds like you are so focused on the beard-prep (you seem to be assuming that is the issue), that you are overdoing it. From what you describe, your face must be red and raw after your "preparation." No matter how tough your beard, there's no need for all that. After a shower, all you really need to do is keep warm water splashed on your face while you build your lather and prepare your razor/blade.
it is possible that I am over doing it, but like I have mentioned before, less prep meant worse results. My face is never red before a shave, I take cold showers and don't use astringent cleaners. I rarely even wash my face with more than just water and a wash cloth. That was the reason for the hot towel before building lather, to open my pores and I know that warmer water is absorbed by the hair shaft better than colder. As I stated in a previous post, making lather to sit on my face during the last few minutes of my shower has helped, I could do this after the shower, but its easier for me during.
I would guess the problem is OVER-prepping your beard, not building good lather, and improper technique during the shave... any combination of those three... or maybe all three.
I really apreciate your knowledge and help, and look forward to your help in finding success for me during my shave! If you have any other specific questions about my routine, please ask.